Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Mysers Briggs Introduction & Communication Strategies

ENFJ
E: where you get your energy -- from the outside world 
N: how you take in information -- using your gut reactions.
F: how you make decisions -- with your heart based on values.
J: how you organize your life -- like to finish the job

Part One

Choosing A Major ~
I will probably choose a major that incorporates more of an intrapersonal style of communication over a major that would include me sitting in front of a computer by myself all day.

Reading, Writing, Studying ~
Unless I am intensely interested in what I am reading, it is difficult for me to stay focused on a book for too long of a time before my mind becomes fidgety and I want to find something new to do. This also goes for my studying habits; I am not very good at studying for long periods of time. As for writing, when I get really "into" what I am writing about, my tone becomes more passionate and the wording of my phrases will start to sound Shakespearian-esque.

Playing ~
In reference to sports, I am a very forceful player. I was once told by a girl that she actually quit basketball because I guarded her "too well." (I felt kind of bad about that.)

Possible Causes Of Stress ~
I become stressed in situations where there is a lack of communication. If I do not know what to do for an assignment, or if I have a relationship "problem" that has yet to be addressed, there is not much that I can do to attempt to remedy anything, and I get anxious.

Dealing With Conflict ~
I deal with conflict verbally. If there is something wrong, I prefer for the problem to be addressed straight to the person it involves and for it to keep being talked through until a conclusion is drawn.

Part Two
Communication Strategies

I don't really have any one person in my life who I would like to improve my communication with, but I could broaden my scope and say that I would like to communicate more and better with all of the girls on my floor.
The girls all have very different "codes;" there are many extroverts on our floor (Crowder 500 has been known to be extroverted), but there are also some introverts, and even some secret introverts! Communication between the girls has been kind of crazy due to girls simply being girls.
My code compares to a lot of the girls' codes because we all like to be outgoing and have a good time, but in contrast, not everyone understands why others do things as well as some understand it.
I can begin to adapt to these many different communication styles to improve my relationship with them by simply sitting back and listening to the girls rather than throwing in my thoughts and opinions all of the time. In fact, that is a specific "something" that I will probably do differently.

Friday, September 16, 2011

Goals & Mission Statement

GOALS

"If you don't know where you are going, you will probably end up somewhere else." --Lawrence J. Peter

Starting college, goals are a big part of accomplishing some of the big tasks that this type of schooling will present. As Lawrence Peter said, without a goal of sorts in mind, you will probably end up "somewhere else" -- and that somewhere else probably will not be where you want to be. That said, I will be setting three solid goals to have accomplished by certain deadlines in order to make sure that I end up exactly where God wants me!

Under the category of Spiritual Goals, my goal is a ministry that I am newly involved with called EVERY5. Started by current sophomore Avery Hopkins last year, she brought the idea to campus that, on every fifth of the month people would bring their spare change and give it to the EVERY5 cause. The idea? "Give change to make change." This past summer of 2011, Avery was able to take all of the change that people contributed (about $600) to Indonesia and feed starving children. By the beginning of this summer, our goal is to double last years' amount to a grand total of $1,200. We are praying for God to do big things! To do this, one of our fundraisers is setting out jars on every fifth of every month; so, if you drop by the Aerie or the Caf on the fifth, look for the jars and drop your change!

For Relational Goals, I am striving to become great friends with all of the girls on my floor (500 Chicks for days)! I know that all of the girl friends that I make here on campus will most likely be the main ones to last me for my whole life. That said, I am striving to make good friends with all of them! I do not really have any real deadline for this since relationships are usually unpredictable in how much time they take to develop, but I suppose that my deadline could be the end of this year, as well! To do this, I will spend more time with the girls than I would with the guys and make an effort to be on my floor and with my girls rather than chillin' by myself, somewhere. That is a nice, practical solution!

Finally, my Academic Goal is to keep a 3.5 GPA or higher this year. Clearly, I will not find out if I achieved this goal until the end of this year, so I will be striving for that throughout the year. I will achieve this by making studies a priority over hanging out, which will be hard, but very necessary for a college freshman who needs to start off on the right foot!

MISSION STATEMENT

I strive to GIVE my life to Christ by BEING ABOUT my FATHER'S BUSINESS,
by showing LOVE to His people,
IDENTIFYING Christ in the lives of others
and ILLUMINATING His Word in our every day lives.
I will live my life expressing JOY,
ABUNDANCE in Christ,
WISDOM,
LOVE,
WHOLENESS from Jesus,
and SECURITY in Him,
in an effort to SHOW teenage girls
just how much Christ can fulfill their lives
over any other human being.

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Four Letters


Extraverted iNtuitive Feeling Judging by Joe Butt

Profile: ENFJ
Revision: 3.0
Date of Revision: 23 Feb 2005

ENFJs are the benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity. They have tremendous charisma by which many are drawn into their nurturant tutelage and/or grand schemes. Many ENFJs have tremendous power to manipulate others with their phenomenal interpersonal skills and unique salesmanship. But it's usually not meant as manipulation -- ENFJs generally believe in their dreams, and see themselves as helpers and enablers, which they usually are.

ENFJs are global learners. They see the big picture. The ENFJs focus is expansive. Some can juggle an amazing number of responsibilities or projects simultaneously. Many ENFJs have tremendous entrepreneurial ability.

ENFJs are, by definition, Js, with whom we associate organization and decisiveness. But they don't resemble the SJs or even the NTJs in organization of the environment nor occasional recalcitrance. ENFJs are organized in the arena of interpersonal affairs. Their offices may or may not be cluttered, but their conclusions (reached through feelings) about people and motives are drawn much more quickly and are more resilient than those of their NFP counterparts.

ENFJs know and appreciate people. Like most NFs, (and Feelers in general), they are apt to neglect themselves and their own needs for the needs of others. They have thinner psychological boundaries than most, and are at risk for being hurt or even abused by less sensitive people. ENFJs often take on more of the burdens of others than they can bear.
TRADEMARK: "The first shall be last"

This refers to the open-door policy of ENFJs. One ENFJ colleague always welcomes me into his office regardless of his own circumstances. If another person comes to the door, he allows them to interrupt our conversation with their need. While discussing that need, the phone rings and he stops to answer it. Others drop in with a 'quick question.' I finally get up, go to my office and use the call waiting feature on the telephone. When he hangs up, I have his undivided attention!

Functional Analysis:
Extraverted Feeling
Extraverted Feeling rules the ENFJ's psyche. In the sway of this rational function, these folks are predisposed to closure in matters pertaining to people, and especially on behalf of their beloved. As extraverts, their contacts are wide ranging. Face-to-face relationships are intense, personable and warm, though they may be so infrequently achieved that intimate friendships are rare.
Introverted iNtuition

Like their INFJ cousins, ENFJs are blessed through introverted intuition with clarity of perception in the inner, unconscious world. Dominant Feeling prefers to find the silver lining in even the most beggarly perceptions of those in their expanding circle of friends and, of course, in themselves. In less balanced individuals, such mitigation of the unseemly eventually undermines the ENFJ's integrity and frequently their good name. In healthier individuals, deft use of this awareness of the inner needs and desires of others enables this astute type to win friends, influence people, and avoid compromising entanglements.

The dynamic nature of their intuition moves ENFJs from one project to another with the assurance that the next one will be perfect, or much more nearly so than the last. ENFJs are continually looking for newer and better solutions to benefit their extensive family, staff, or organization.
Extraverted Sensing

Sensing is extraverted. ENFJs can manage details, particularly those necessary to implement the prevailing vision. These data have, however, a magical flexible quality. Something to be bought can be had for a song; the same something is invaluable when it's time to sell. (We are not certain, but we suspect that such is the influence of the primary function.) This wavering of sensory perception is made possible by the weaker and less mature status with which the tertiary is endowed.
Introverted Thinking

Introverted Thinking is least apparent and most enigmatic in this type. In fact, it often appears only when summoned by Feeling. At times only in jest, but in earnest if need be, Thinking entertains as logical only those conclusions which support Feeling's values. Other scenarios can be shown invalid or at best significantly inferior. Such "Thinking in the service of Feeling" has the appearance of logic, but somehow it never quite adds up.

Introverted Thinking is frequently the focus of the spiritual quest of ENFJs. David's lengthiest psalm, 119, pays it homage. "Law," "precept," "commandment," "statute:" these essences of inner thinking are the mysteries of Deity for which this great Feeler's soul searched.
Introverted Thinking

Introverted Thinking is least apparent and most enigmatic in this type. In fact, it often appears only when summoned by Feeling. At times only in jest, but in earnest if need be, Thinking entertains as logical only those conclusions which support Feeling's values. Other scenarios can be shown invalid or at best significantly inferior. Such "Thinking in the service of Feeling" has the appearance of logic, but somehow it never quite adds up.

Introverted Thinking is frequently the focus of the spiritual quest of ENFJs. David's lengthiest psalm, 119, pays it homage. "Law," "precept," "commandment," "statute:" these essences of inner thinking are the mysteries of Deity for which this great Feeler's soul searched.
TRADEMARK: "The first shall be last"

This refers to the open-door policy of ENFJs. One ENFJ colleague always welcomes me into his office regardless of his own circumstances. If another person comes to the door, he allows them to interrupt our conversation with their need. While discussing that need, the phone rings and he stops to answer it. Others drop in with a 'quick question.' I finally get up, go to my office and use the call waiting feature on the telephone. When he hangs up, I have his undivided attention!

Functional Analysis:
Extraverted Feeling
Extraverted Feeling rules the ENFJ's psyche. In the sway of this rational function, these folks are predisposed to closure in matters pertaining to people, and especially on behalf of their beloved. As extraverts, their contacts are wide ranging. Face-to-face relationships are intense, personable and warm, though they may be so infrequently achieved that intimate friendships are rare.
Introverted iNtuition

Like their INFJ cousins, ENFJs are blessed through introverted intuition with clarity of perception in the inner, unconscious world. Dominant Feeling prefers to find the silver lining in even the most beggarly perceptions of those in their expanding circle of friends and, of course, in themselves. In less balanced individuals, such mitigation of the unseemly eventually undermines the ENFJ's integrity and frequently their good name. In healthier individuals, deft use of this awareness of the inner needs and desires of others enables this astute type to win friends, influence people, and avoid compromising entanglements.

The dynamic nature of their intuition moves ENFJs from one project to another with the assurance that the next one will be perfect, or much more nearly so than the last. ENFJs are continually looking for newer and better solutions to benefit their extensive family, staff, or organization.
Extraverted Sensing

Sensing is extraverted. ENFJs can manage details, particularly those necessary to implement the prevailing vision. These data have, however, a magical flexible quality. Something to be bought can be had for a song; the same something is invaluable when it's time to sell. (We are not certain, but we suspect that such is the influence of the primary function.) This wavering of sensory perception is made possible by the weaker and less mature status with which the tertiary is endowed.
Introverted Thinking

Introverted Thinking is least apparent and most enigmatic in this type. In fact, it often appears only when summoned by Feeling. At times only in jest, but in earnest if need be, Thinking entertains as logical only those conclusions which support Feeling's values. Other scenarios can be shown invalid or at best significantly inferior. Such "Thinking in the service of Feeling" has the appearance of logic, but somehow it never quite adds up.

Introverted Thinking is frequently the focus of the spiritual quest of ENFJs. David's lengthiest psalm, 119, pays it homage. "Law," "precept," "commandment," "statute:" these essences of inner thinking are the mysteries of Deity for which this great Feeler's soul searched.
Introverted Thinking

Introverted Thinking is least apparent and most enigmatic in this type. In fact, it often appears only when summoned by Feeling. At times only in jest, but in earnest if need be, Thinking entertains as logical only those conclusions which support Feeling's values. Other scenarios can be shown invalid or at best significantly inferior. Such "Thinking in the service of Feeling" has the appearance of logic, but somehow it never quite adds up.

Introverted Thinking is frequently the focus of the spiritual quest of ENFJs. David's lengthiest psalm, 119, pays it homage. "Law," "precept," "commandment," "statute:" these essences of inner thinking are the mysteries of Deity for which this great Feeler's soul searched.

Sunday, September 4, 2011

Temperament Result


My Temperament Result: 

Artisan (SP)



Artisans are the temperament with a natural ability to excel in any of the arts, not only the fine arts such as painting and sculpting, or the performing arts such as music, theater, and dance, but also the athletic, military, political, mechanical, and industrial arts, as well as the "art of the deal" in business.

Artisans are most at home in the real world of solid objects that can be made and manipulated, and of real-life events that can be experienced in the here and now. Artisans have exceptionally keen senses, and love working with their hands. They seem right at home with tools, instruments, and vehicles of all kinds, and their actions are usually aimed at getting them where they want to go, and as quickly as possible. Thus Artisans will strike off boldly down roads that others might consider risky or impossible, doing whatever it takes, rules or no rules, to accomplish their goals. This devil-may-care attitude also gives the Artisans a winning way with people, and they are often irresistibly charming with family, friends, and co-workers.

Artisans want to be where the action is; they seek out adventure and show a constant hunger for pleasure and stimulation. They believe that variety is the spice of life, and that doing things that aren't fun or exciting is a waste of time. Artisans are impulsive, adaptable, competitive, and believe the next throw of the dice will be the lucky one. They can also be generous to a fault, always ready to share with their friends from the bounty of life. Above all, Artisans need to be free to do what they wish, when they wish. They resist being tied or bound or confined or obligated; they would rather not wait, or save, or store, or live for tomorrow. In the Artisan view, today must be enjoyed, for tomorrow may never come.

There are many Artisans, perhaps 30 to 35 percent of the population, which is good, because they create much of the beauty, grace, fun, and excitement the rest of us enjoy in life.

Artisans at Work

Artisans seek to make an impact upon the organizations where they work and upon society at large. Their alertness to current realities, the joy they take in variation, and their tendency to follow their instincts to 'what works' make them good troubleshooters and negotiators, talented performers and craftspeople and excellent leaders in all kinds of emergencies and chaotic situations.

Even at work, your motto could be, "Let me entertain you. Let me make you smile." In fact, bringing playfulness to situations can be one of your greatest contributions on the job. In your ideal job, you have the opportunity to apply your talent for performing and improvising communications so that they appeal to the individuals or groups of people in your environment. Because of your gift for words, your ideal position might include tasks that allow you to apply your communications talent for the good of the organization.